I don’t know about you but I love the expression “break the mould”, to me it implies freedom and individuality but what does it mean? Break the mould means doing something different or new to what is expected or changing a situation completely.
It can be challenging to “break the mould” these days as we live in such an approval seeking society. It starts right from school with teachers and as a child with our parents always trying to do “the right thing”. The problem is that when you constantly seek approval from others you lose who you are and the most important thing is how you feel about yourself. Remember, your self-esteem is located within you. There will always be an amount of disapproval in your life and that’s okay. I’m not saying go out and seek it, but just expect a certain amount, not everyone will approve with your choices.
When someone disapproves of your life choices just acknowledge it but let them know it’s who you are. Opinions are great, approval is great, but don’t be controlled by them. You have to get really internally referenced. Understand that your security about how you feel about yourself is located inside. Security on the outside world is an illusion. You will only truly find it in yourself.
Hypnotherapy is a powerful tool for change. You can change unwanted beliefs and habits using hypnotherapy.